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Girl Talk 3w
I have such a genuine FEAR of giving birth and my husband living life as per usual while I lose my education, career, social life, hobbies, sleep. You can try so hard to choose the right man but you never know until it happens
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Anonymous 3w

Communicate with your husband? Work as a team?? That’s what marriage is.

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Anonymous 3w

genuinely this is why i’m never having kids. society expects way way way too much from mothers and the bare minimum from fathers and im NOT losing my whole identity to that

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Anonymous 3w

The real reason I won’t have kids

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Okay my further thoughts on this that I was afraid to voice. I think most new moms make it harder than it needs to be. You CAN shower and eat and sleep. Literally the baby will be fine sobbing for a second. Take care of yourself and let the baby cry for 90 seconds. Also them being like “I can’t sleep when the baby sleeps bc that’s when I clean” make your grown ass husband clean when he gets home and you sleep when the baby sleeps bc?? It’s not that hard

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