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would you let your s/o move in or share an apartment with the opposite sex? I’m only asking because my bf is going to move in with his close female friend, who idk personally. he didn’t even consider asking me how i would feel & it’s just now telling me.
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Anonymous 14w

nah this has red flags all over it. i’m not even the jealous type but why tf wouldn’t he communicate who he’s gonna be living with? he hid that info in purpose. trust already broken imo.

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Anonymous 14w

Yeaaa… that’s sketch. It’s a whole other thing if she’s like a lesbian he’s known since childhood and he discusses the idea with you ahead of time, introduced y’all beforehand etc. but nah that’s all bullshit. Dump him

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Anonymous 14w

No

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Anonymous 14w

Nope. We don’t even live together and him living with another woman outside of his family just doesn’t sit right with me. Even if I trust him 100%, there’s just a level of intimacy you get from sharing the same spaces all the time and that’s not something he should have with another woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Not to mention a girl best friend who you haven’t met?? Yeah girl that’s a no from me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

he said he’s known her since middle school but he’s just now been bringing her up. I’ve known them to hangout but i still haven’t met her at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

THIS is what i explained to him & he literally looked at me like i was tripping. i told him if she isn’t in anyway related to you or gay then im never going to be comfortable with the idea of you sharing a home with another woman.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

seriously im not the jealous type at all but this definitely crosses some boundaries with both of them. him not considering how I would feel & her agreeing with this despite him having a gf, not that she owes me any loyalty but this whole thing rubs me the wrong way.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

don’t let him gaslight you!! this is insane behavior on his part and i can’t wrap my head around why he’d ever put himself in that position if he genuinely loves and respects you

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