Anonymous #2 5w

I’m scared he’s going to think it’s weird

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Anonymous OP 5w

i don’t think you should hide smth just cuz ur scared of ur partner’s reaction—if they have a negative reaction that wouldn’t be within your control. & you could communicate. but tbh, i bet he’d like it 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #2 5w

I see what you mean

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Anonymous OP 5w

also, why would you want your partners initials if they didn’t like it? i feel like being anxious about keeping it from him might do more harm than good

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Anonymous #1 5w

I’m not sure, I have an anxiety disorder so I tend to get nervous about things unnecessarily so I thought maybe asking this group would make me feel better. I don’t want to always bog him down with my worries, but when I do he’s always there to reassure me so idrk

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Anonymous OP 5w

i don’t think it will bog him down at all! i think you could just ask him if he’d like it, or tell him when you get it. even though you’re anxious abt it and might see it as telling him ur worries, i think he’ll interpret it as just a normal question

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Anonymous #1 5w

I’ll talk to him about it thank you so much ☺️

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Anonymous #3 5w

We’ve known each other for 12 years and dated for a year so far

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Anonymous OP 5w

Omg def not weird

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Anonymous #3 5w

Oh okay good thank you so much

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