Anonymous #4 2w

If all he did was tell you he wasn’t feeling so happy while you were out having a good time without him, I feel like thats just an honest answer and the “communication” y’all always say you want

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Anonymous #4 2w

and you’re mad he gets upset when you go for a long time without answering while you’re out… does he not just want to make sure you’re ok..

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Anonymous #4 2w

I mean do whatever you want but I think you’re being selfish and the single lifestyle is for you if you want to go around doing whatever you want and not considering how it makes other people feel.

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Anonymous #4 2w

and I wonder if you ever tried to actually communicate anything about how you felt with him before just giving up

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Anonymous #4 2w

Girl I’m not going to put every single little detail into the post. He was toxic in more ways than one. get off my dick

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Anonymous #4 2w

Why are you trying to make this seem so egregious? Even if he wasn’t toxic, she has EVERY right to leave a relationship she doesn’t want to be in anymore. ‘Trying’ isn’t going to fix jack if she doesn’t even want to be with him anymore.

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Anonymous OP 2w

and you sound just as toxic

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Anonymous #3 2w

because there’s two sides to every story and im not gonna let someone share their selfish story without making people aware of the ignorance this person is displaying. This is not a story others should be inspired from.

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Anonymous #3 2w

Women just can’t have their views challenged 🙄 classic

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Anonymous #4 2w

So I should’ve just kept going on with the relationship even though I don’t want it anymore?

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Anonymous OP 2w

Bc idk that seem unfair to him

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Anonymous OP 2w

That’s not what im saying. In fact I said if you’re unhappy with the lifestyle that suits the relationship then you’d be happier single. I’m saying that you sound ignorant of how your actions affect others, and dislike open communication. Like I said if you don’t want to make compromises for people and considering their feelings too, then you’ll love being single.

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Anonymous #4 2w

This is literally my first bf ofc I’m going to make mistakes. Idk what you were expecting

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Anonymous OP 2w

And I don’t have all the information here like I already said too. But the information I do have makes you seem selfish. So if there is more, include that and that could change my opinion. But as it is with the limited information and your refusal to elaborate, you sound like an asshole.

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Anonymous #4 2w

I don’t know if he has friends, I don’t know if he has another support system, I don’t know how often you invited him along if ever, I don’t know if he was just checking in or wanted to know exactly what you were doing every second. Those are all important details that can change the narrative from you being an asshole to him being an asshole.

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Anonymous #4 2w

I’m not TRYING to be rude but I am trying to challenge your views because as of now they seem very selfish and ignorant of others.

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Anonymous OP 2w

yes you’ll make mistakes but completely ignoring how someone else feels to suit your own interests isn’t “a mistake” it’s just being a bad person, don’t you have friends to practice paying attention to?

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Anonymous #4 2w

Can you please just back off for the love of god. I have my reasons and I don’t need to tell you every detail. This situation was merely the straw that broke the camels back.

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Anonymous OP 2w

OP you’re so valid please block #4 they’re clearly an awful person without empathy

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Anonymous OP 2w

If you don’t provide the details necessary to make yourself not seem like an asshole then you look like an asshole. You don’t HAVE to, but you look like an asshole.

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Anonymous #1 2w

that’s what OP is, I’m trying to understand the poor guy’s side but y’all women are too dense to understand other people’s ideas and feelings, just your own.

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Anonymous #1 2w

and y’all circle jerk each other’s ignorance

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Anonymous #4 2w

no one owes you anything by the way. she has no obligation to explain anything. i’m sorry that someone didn’t let you explain yourself in the past but your projection isn’t always what happens. this was a simple and fun post about someone having freedom over a burdensome relationship and you’re just yapping to yap.

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Anonymous #4 2w

i take it back. you’re not yapping to yap, your yapping to put down women in general based off this last comment.

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Anonymous barrymcockinerr 2w

When did I say that? I just said based on the info they wanted to share that’s the conclusion. I didn’t ASK them to. Omg

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Anonymous #4 2w

If there’s two sides to every story, where does your side come in? You don’t know these people. You aren’t in a relationship with either of them. Why do you think you can concoct all the hypothetical ways she failed him?

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Anonymous #4 2w

Ohh ‘Y’all women’ What does this even mean? Are you a man?

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Anonymous #3 2w

I’m afab nonbinary

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Anonymous #3 2w

I’m not concocting like I fuckin said if you can read BASED ON what I know which is the ONLY INFORMATION provided they SEEM to be selfish. Oh my god please stop being dense on purpose.

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Anonymous #4 2w

If you really are AFAB non-binary, you’d know what it’s like to be looked down on based on your gender. With that context, ‘Y’all women are too dense’ is an insane thing to say. It’s why I thought you were a man.

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Anonymous #4 2w

YOU’RE being dense on purpose. If she didn’t want to be with him anymore, she has every right to break things off. Can we please be serious? You’re crafting scenarios where you can feel bad for the guy when she’s shared reasons why SHE was unhappy with him. I don’t know if you see yourself in him or what but you don’t do shit like ‘why didn’t y’all just talk?’ when someone is talking about getting out of a relationship that stressed them TF out.

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Anonymous #4 2w

He has no reason to be upset with her because she decided to do something about HER social life.

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Anonymous #3 2w

Women are dense. They’re rude, judgmental, jump to conclusions, often sexist, catty, petty, and overall usually not good people

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Anonymous #3 2w

I’m just trying to challenge someone’s selfish views so that maybe they think on it for their next relationship so it goes better. Jerking her off and saying “omg I’m so proud of you for ignoring someone else’s relationship needs and then leaving him because you are too selfish to try in a relationship!!!” only causes more relationships like this to happen.

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Anonymous #3 2w

He does if she is constantly going out without him, or leaving him out of activities he wanted to be a part of, or ignoring him while she’s out if he wanted to just check in, and all of this is especially true if he struggles with his own social life. There can be reasons that’s why I said based on the information I know it SEEMS selfish. Can you fucking read holy shit

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Anonymous #4 2w

How many times to I have to repeat myself

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Anonymous #4 2w

You’re assuming a lot, acting like I’m constantly going out without him, I went out twice without him. Hop off

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Anonymous #4 2w

And the two times I went without him was because I was literally in a different state 1000 miles away, and the other time I was at a convention. Are you happy now?

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Anonymous #4 2w

I hope you get over what makes you feel so strongly about this. Nearly all your takes on this have ‘if’ attached to this. You don’t know these people. You don’t know everything that happened. Go outside. Talk to real people. Get off yikyak. Also, this page is literally called ‘girl talk’. If you dislike women so much, GET OUT!

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Anonymous #3 2w

You cannot read

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Anonymous OP 2w

you can’t fucking read how many times did I say that I AM assuming because that’s the only thing I CAN do with VERY LITTLE INFO. From the shit YOU said, THATS how I interpreted it. Hop off MY dick just cus you’re mad someone isn’t immediately supporting every decision you make when your side of the story makes you sound like an asshole.

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Anonymous #4 2w

Literally why are you so pressed over this?

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Anonymous OP 2w

Why are you? I was just giving you another perspective and you went apeshit

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Anonymous #4 2w

Probably bc you’re accusing me of being an “asshole” despite not knowing everything about the story. Maybe you shouldn’t care so much would an Internet stranger does, you’ve been arguing under my post for over a day now at this point. It’s sad

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