Anonymous hooters 10w

I can’t imagine being called boyfriend and girlfriend @ 40

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Anonymous #4 10w

just say partner then 💁‍♀️

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Anonymous #4 10w

Partner

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Anonymous #3 10w

you get me

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Anonymous hooters 10w

wouldn’t change the fact and that’s dweeby

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Anonymous #4 10w

why? if we're together, wtf does it matter what we call eachother or if we do it legally?

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Anonymous #3 10w

not really descriptive of the relationship though. husbands and wives call themselves partners too you’re still bf and gf

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Anonymous #4 10w

Being in a loving committed relationship is dweeby until you get the government involved? Bffr 😭

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Anonymous #3 10w

no the word partner is lol to me personally don’t pull out the gun like

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Anonymous #4 10w

i mean technically partner is something that was mostly popularized by the lgbt community as a way for them to keep their partners anonymous and for them to keep themselves safe 🤷‍♀️ plenty of ppl say partner when they're dating nowadays

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Anonymous hooters 10w

I know that which is why I said husbands and wives call themselves partners sometimes too.

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Anonymous hooters 10w

Ya girl is mid-20s and wants a family plus I want tender romantic sex 80% of the time. I can’t do rough sex every single time or I’ll feel shitty

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Anonymous #4 10w

yeah but u called it dweeby and said "ur still bf and gf" which implies u dont agree with calling ur gf/bf ur partner..

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Anonymous OP 10w

eyy no hate 🙂‍↔️ i know the life style i want aint fir everyone (and lets keep it that way cause then itll be harder for me to get it fr)

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Anonymous #4 10w

all romantic partners could call each other that, don’t need to be married lol

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Anonymous #5 10w

hence the word “too” it’s like y’all are slow or something

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Anonymous #4 10w

i think u just dont know how to get ur point accross very well actually

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Anonymous hooters 10w

says the person who said no that’s good! to someone who explicitly said it wasn’t favorable to them

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Anonymous #4 10w

u ever hear of a joke before? 😭

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Anonymous #4 10w

ur comment implies that “partner” has to refer to a married couple or it’s not accurately describing the relationship lol

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Anonymous #5 10w

if I’m replying to someone saying it’s most common in gay relationships, and adding “too” in response about a heterosexual one, that means I’m acknowledging a wide range of identifications use the word partner. it’s almost as if the word too connotes something.

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Anonymous #4 10w

you’re contrasting married couples referring to each other as partners with ppl who are not married, that contrast implies that u think “partner” should refer to a married couple. i wasn’t reading ur comment as differentiating between straight couples and queer ones, it read as if u were differentiating married and not married couples

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Anonymous #4 10w

i literally gave u an explanation hours ago about y it sounds like ur disagreeing also, can u like not read?

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Anonymous #5 10w

because that reply was in direct response to me saying boyfriend and girlfriend can be swapped out for partner. so I brought up married couples that used partner too as an example to say calling someone your partner doesn’t cancel out the fact you’re unmarried. quite the opposite of what you’re insisting

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Anonymous hooters 10w

notice how I ignored you and you’re tagging me twice. you’re not catching my attention

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Anonymous #4 10w

no worries i found something better to do, i dont need it anymore but i appreciate you giving it to me anyways :)

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