
i think you’re right and it’s frustrating me. and in a weird way it feels like she’s “competing” with me to “outskinny” me and it’s like?? i don’t even wanna compete lol, i have my history of my own body issues so i’d rather not feed into that ideology that might bring those thoughts back up
oh i don’t mind standing my ground if i’m made this uncomfortable, it’s just like how do i tell someone who clearly has their own issues that they’re saying very weird things. it would feel a little odd to bring up casually while we’re out and about, so it’s i guess the timing and context that make it difficult to confront.