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Ladies how did you overcome your shame about your sexuality induced by religion? Its harming my relationship as every time my boyfriend tries to engage sexually I get terribly anxious. Its not him, I have struggled w/ this in every relationship.
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Anonymous 5w

For me I had to honestly explore myself before I was able to do anything with a partner. Going slow with him and pushing yourself a little. It very important not to go to far so you don't have an anxiety attack. I honestly find playing it safer is better during anything sexually bc of the after feeling personally it really pushes me away from my partner which was harder.

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Anonymous replying to -> cutey_patootie 5w

That was a lot of blah but basically I would suggest exploring yourself and then planning out to a tee what you guys are going to do together and have the reassurance yourself and calm about what you are going to do before you do it

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