this obv isn’t the only reason but im ngl the idea of everyone just calling me mama after i have a kid really really helped solidify staying childfree lol
it really just sums up how we lose our individual identity as far as anyone else is concerned the minute we become mothers 😭
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Anonymous5w
I think people call women who become mothers “mama” is because it’s quite an accomplishment. But I can understand why you also wouldn’t wanna be called that either
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Anonymous5w
oh my god i hate “mama” “mommy” 🤮🤮🤮🤮
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Anonymous5w
Especially “mama” like what in the millennial
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Anonymous5w
some people use the nickname mama in general I have no kids and have been called that numerous times lol but ok yea
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Anonymous5w
I call everyone mama unfortunately (including myself)
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Anonymous#25w
even the idea of giving birth and having all the nurses call me that icks me out so bad… like hello i have a name!!
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Anonymous#15w
ugh yeah i just hate the assumption that it’s totally fine and normal to do, especially with strangers :/
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Anonymous#35w
“you go mama” die
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Anonymous#35w
this is EXACTLY what i was thinking of when i made this post like it actually pisses me off so bad. god forbid a woman wants to have an identity outside of being a mother!!
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Anonymous#45w
i just hate how normalized it is. like yeah it’s a big milestone but the fact total strangers feel comfortable calling randle women mama just bc they’ve had a kid? weird weird weird i hate it sm
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AnonymousOP5w
randle…… autocorrect literally praying on my downfall. RANDOM 😭😭