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my bf is so bad at remembering things he agreed to go to and it’s lowkey starting to bother me. like i’ll ask him to something with he will say yes and then like the next day he will be like “i forgot i already agreed to do this with so and sol
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Anonymous 3d

like yes you should go to what you agreed to but i wish you were better at remembering these things so i don’t get my hopes up about something you agreed to do with me

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Anonymous 3d

He didn't forget he probably just doesn't want to go. Does he ever forget his other obligations?

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Anonymous 3d

I think it’s worth a conversation if it’s happening in all areas of his life. It’s not a good foundation to build a relationship on bc eventually he will do this with something really important to you and not as easy to work around. Bring it up and his reaction will let you know if he can grow or if he’s going to make it a you problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

he does, not with just me though he forgets with other people too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Maybe have him use the reminders app! It can even do urgent reminders now that will ping you if you forget

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

he also has no issue telling me no if he doesn’t want to do something, so if he didn’t want to do it he would’ve just told me no

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