izzy_the_hamster
I still can’t believe I said no to my now-boyfriend the first time he asked me out all those years ago. Yeah I was going through some confusing emotions (still aromantic at the time 🙃) but what was 15yo me thinking? He was amazing even back then…No, it was within a year of him asking me out. We met at summer camp, but then that October my family moved to the same state as his and we ended up about 1.5 hours drive from each other. We were part of the same national youth group (NFTY) so we started hanging out at regional events and meeting up outside of that on occasion. We’d stayed friends since camp and I slowly started falling for him. We moved again In December (the first one was only temporary) but within the state and, by luck—>
It still feels magical even all these years later. Every morning when I wake up and see him it makes me just as happy as it did when I finally got up the courage to ask him out 🙂↕️😊 I also got really lucky, not just with the move taking me tot he same state and eventually same county, but I mean because we were friends at camp that summer for weeks before he asked me out, so even when I said no (again, dealing with the fact I’d come out as aromantic at 13🫠) we were still able to be friends.
Oh absolutely! I joke with him about how I’m so glad he didn’t take no for an answer, and he says he knew he’d win me over eventually, even though at the time it really was just friendship. And in the end that’s what really got me. I mean yeah he is handsome as all heck, even back then, but it was really just his charming, genuine and kind he is. Even back at camp we bonded over nerding out over rock/metal, Star Wars, guns/hunting, outdoors, photography, etc. It all just felt so natural.
Hey Im not sure if you realized this but Im the guy who made the group chat for us and also gave you the insta of the other girl... I had no idea it was you but I didnt put those clues together until just now. I am really sorry Izzy and I hope we can stay on a good note