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izzy_the_hamster

I still can’t believe I said no to my now-boyfriend the first time he asked me out all those years ago. Yeah I was going through some confusing emotions (still aromantic at the time 🙃) but what was 15yo me thinking? He was amazing even back then…
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Anonymous 12w

Wait when did you and him start dating? Like a year ago tho? Or?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

No, it was within a year of him asking me out. We met at summer camp, but then that October my family moved to the same state as his and we ended up about 1.5 hours drive from each other. We were part of the same national youth group (NFTY) so we started hanging out at regional events and meeting up outside of that on occasion. We’d stayed friends since camp and I slowly started falling for him. We moved again In December (the first one was only temporary) but within the state and, by luck—>

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

—> I this move ended up with us living in the same county/area and at the same school. By February I’d totally fallen for him so I finally told him how I felt and asked him out. He accepted and we’ve been together ever since.

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 12w

AWWW GIRL IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU! This sounds so nice and I hope it lasts 🩵

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Aww thank you! 🙏 Considering it’s been quite a while now, early 2018, and we’re going just as strong as ever I really think it’s going to. Right now, and since 2022, he and I are counselors at the camp where we first met.

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 12w

Okay this is so beautiful and Im so glad you that you two have had this connection for seven years 🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

It still feels magical even all these years later. Every morning when I wake up and see him it makes me just as happy as it did when I finally got up the courage to ask him out 🙂‍↕️😊 I also got really lucky, not just with the move taking me tot he same state and eventually same county, but I mean because we were friends at camp that summer for weeks before he asked me out, so even when I said no (again, dealing with the fact I’d come out as aromantic at 13🫠) we were still able to be friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Without being able to still be friends with him, I never would’ve ended up falling for him overtime like I did.

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 11w

Im so glad you did 😊 His patience never wavered for you and I bet thats one thing you like about him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Oh absolutely! I joke with him about how I’m so glad he didn’t take no for an answer, and he says he knew he’d win me over eventually, even though at the time it really was just friendship. And in the end that’s what really got me. I mean yeah he is handsome as all heck, even back then, but it was really just his charming, genuine and kind he is. Even back at camp we bonded over nerding out over rock/metal, Star Wars, guns/hunting, outdoors, photography, etc. It all just felt so natural.

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 11w

And it still feels natural too right??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Yup! Just like it always has!

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 11w

Awww 😊

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 11w

Hey Im not sure if you realized this but Im the guy who made the group chat for us and also gave you the insta of the other girl... I had no idea it was you but I didnt put those clues together until just now. I am really sorry Izzy and I hope we can stay on a good note

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

What are you talking about?

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 11w

Oh... it mustve been a different Izzy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Yeah I was really confused because I don’t even use instagram really and certainly nobody on here has ever sent me instagram names

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 11w

Im sorry 😔 Thank you for telling me I may have just been overwhelming her with what I was saying

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Oh

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Anonymous replying to -> izzy_the_hamster 11w

Also Im sorry for being on here while being a man but I appreciate that you told me about how you and your boyfriend got together 😌 I hope it always stays as magical as you described it

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