
If you want an honest answer, here it is. If you really love each other, you need to have a serious conversation with him about the habits you both have that each of you dislikes (such as the way you each handle situations). Talk about how you can each work on it and fix it together. If you feel like it’s just a personal problem, maybe seek counseling or a therapist. If he’s being an asshole, it’s totally his fault, and you’re blaming yourself for it then dump his ass.
If it is a personal problem and you’re struggling with regulating your emotions because of your mental health, that’s okay! It’s okay to have personal things you need to work on and there’s no reason to be ashamed to ask for help and better yourself. If it is that though, you should probably step away from the relationship so you don’t end up hurting each other for no reason. I really hope things work out. ❤️