idk who needs to hear this... but.
are they avoidant? or are you clingy, obsessive, & got attached way too quickly?
maturity is being able to acknowledge the role you (AND OTHERS) play in your own suffering. learn to remove yourself from situations❤️
YUPPPPP i thought for sure my ex was avoidant when really she was just pulling away bc no amount of reassurance would have been enough. she was perfect but neither was i!!