Are you concerned about pregnancy/birth or about caring for a tiny human? For me, I know I don’t want to get pregnant and the idea of that is terrifying but I absolutely want to foster and/or adopt and it makes me very happy to think about (even though I’m definitely not ready for that rn or any time soon)
I’m a little worried about giving birth and what will happen to my body but mostly I’m just not ready to not put myself first yet. I can’t imagine giving up on my dreams if my kid needed full time support, or changing my life to suit the needs of a kid just yet. I think it’s because right now I’m on the cusp of achieving so much and I love my life, maybe once I’m settled in my career I will be willing to find that balance. I just have too much ambition right now