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how do i accept that my best friend prioritizes her bf over me? please don’t jump me, but it does hurt my feelings when she cancels plans to hang out with him and stuff like that. she just did something that made it painfully clear and i’m just struggling
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Anonymous 6w

i’m not trying to say they should break up or even that she should prioritize friends over a boyfriend. i’m trying to navigate how to accept that she does prioritize him.

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Anonymous 6w

Honestly I’ve been dealing with my friends having bfs my whole life. I’ve never had a bf but am always surrounded by people that do. I’ve noticed that your real friends will mostly put you first especially if your a teenager/early twenties a relationship should never be someone’s first priority. No one should be that serious until there is a ring on their finger. The best thing to do is to not take it personally and keep her at an arms distance, try expressing how you feel, and if she is

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Anonymous 6w

if she is offended by it that’s not a good friend. She can learn to keep a balance. Just remember how she treats you during this time of her life and use that in the future

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