Anonymous #3 10w

I straight up told my man within the first few months of dating “if we get married and you put cake in my face I absolutely will IMMEDIATELY annul it.” Set those frickin boundaries and explain why you hate it (I’m neurodiv and an explanation always helps me more). I looked up the average cost of bridal makeup and he a) was shocked by the price and b) understood immediately why that was a factor in not wanting that done to me. Also I just don’t think it funny and he was like ok cool.

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Anonymous #6 10w

i did the same thing with my boyfriend! i told him if he ruined something that i was going to pay thousands of dollars for and ruin the rest of the nights pictures for one annoying moment i’d immediately annul it because he obviously wouldn’t know me very well

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Anonymous #2 10w

Agreed

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Anonymous #5 10w

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Anonymous #3 10w

Or what if he cheats 💔 #nevertrustmen 🥀

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Anonymous #4 10w

I prefer silver personally.

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Anonymous #5 10w

You don’t even have to divorce, just file for an annulment (or potentially you can even request to block the paperwork from being filed in the first place since it’d be so soon)

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Anonymous #17 10w

That’s valid. Just mean that your partner should know what metal you prefer and propose to you with that metal and not another metal

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Anonymous #13 10w

Haters.. face the facts

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Anonymous #13 10w

If you can’t trust your SO to not smash a cake in your face during your wedding w/o your explicit forbidding, you shouldn’t be dating them.

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Anonymous #5 9w

So dramatic lmao. It’s called having a sense of humor

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Anonymous #23 9w

no it’s called being a douchebag to someone who cares about you. Literally what is funny about cleaning cake out of the hair and makeup you had professionally done. And the dress your family spent thousands on. And then having to do it all again yourself to go out there and face them. Like think about the consequences of your actions for one fucking second goddamn

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Anonymous #24 9w

You take it all off eventually, it’s not a big deal.

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Anonymous #23 9w

idk if i’m paying over $100 for my makeup to be done, and we have a convo about it beforehand and he says “i promise i won’t put cake in your face” and he does it anyway… that’s really not a good way to start a marriage in my opinion. like you might see it as funny which is fine, but a lot of people see stuff like that as public humiliation. idk🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #25 9w

Even those cake smashes where they are clearly too rough with the bride ?? Really?

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Anonymous #4 9w

Or what metal you are / compliments your skin

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Anonymous #28 6w

That’s different, I meant like the funny cute ones not the aggressive ones.

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