
Maybe this is an anti girls girl opinion but idgaf anyway some women need to start taking accountability for the men they CHOOSE to date. If you date a dude who’s known to be a scumbag do not come crying about he’s a scumbag because you been knew and did it anyway. I do not feel bad at all atp
No genuinely. At some point you have to start recognizing the negative patterns in your life and take responsibility, relationships aren’t formed by one person. This isn’t some type of systemic struggle where you have no power. It’s a personal one where you gotta actively choose to break the cycle of abuse. I don’t ever want to victim blame, but I also think taking all autonomy away from victims is patronizing and unhelpful in their recovery.