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I have recently changed my mind about wanting kids but my boyfriend of three years is adamant about having at least three of them, yall think it’s over for us?

Anonymous 5w

re-commenting because people are misconstruing what i’m saying. 1. if you don’t want kids that’s completely your choice (i don’t want them either). 2. tell him you don’t want them and maybe sit down and tell him your mind has changed. don’t let him pressure you into saying yes either. if you don’t want kids or you aren’t sure i don’t recommend having them.

Anonymous 5w

I’m in a really similar spot with my bf. I told him pretty early on that I didn’t want kids and he said that he “just always assumed he’d have kids” but that he was fine with that and now I’m just concerned that he actually wants kids and will resent me

Anonymous 5w

I have no idea when to bring this up to my bf bc i never want kids and i have no idea how he feels about them…

Anonymous

#1 5w

and if you guys are no longer compatible that’s okay too even if it might be sad.

Anonymous

#5 5w

I just had to rip the bandaid off and do it randomly

Anonymous

#4 5w

how long into the relationship?

Anonymous

#5 5w

It was like a year but I should’ve done it much sooner tbh

Anonymous

#4 5w

Like now I’m in the boat that before two people commit to a relationship like bf/gf, gf/gf, bf/bf etc. they should be making sure they’re on the same page with that. But that’s hindsight lol

Anonymous

#4 5w

i date to marry and he knows that so i probably could just ask him. But also in my mind its like, we’re way too young to even consider kids and to even know if this relationship will last until id be ready to think about kids