Please don’t date someone so much older while you’re in your 20s. I made this mistake and it put my life on hold for years. I know it’s sweet, but they have lived so much longer than you that they know what to say and do. The 20s are a time to develop and grow into ourselves, our brains haven’t even fully developed. I don’t know if his motivations are bad but men that age can be good at concealing them. Just be careful.