Anonymous #1 13w

that rule is stupid, and a senior in undergrad has almost nothing in common with someone who’s almost 30

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Anonymous #2 13w

Not everyone who’s 21 is going to university…

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Anonymous #1 13w

if they weren’t it would be even more weird and unbalanced

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Anonymous #2 13w

Yall really mythologize older people. I’m 23 and have a ton of friends in their late 20’s/early 30’s. They’re not that different from us lmfao

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Anonymous #4 13w

Oh fuck im actually 22 why did i say that

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Anonymous #4 13w

i’m 30, and if someone suggested dating someone who was 21 to me when i was 28, i would probably have been physically ill

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Anonymous #2 13w

no offense to 21 year-olds obviously but your brain finishes developing around 25

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Anonymous #4 13w

dating someone whose prefrontal cortex (decision-making center of the brain) has not finished cooking yet when yours has is inherently taking advantage of them, because they are measurably less capable of consenting to the relationship than you are.

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Anonymous #2 13w

Starting to think some of yall don’t realize some people don’t have the same exact experience as you. It’s like talking to a toddler sometimes

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Anonymous #4 13w

it’s in the literature

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Anonymous #2 13w

That’s actuallt a common myth, our brains continue developing throughout our lives

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Anonymous #1 13w

it’s. in. the literature.

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Anonymous #2 13w

The changes are so slight from ages 21 to 25 that it doesn’t really matter lmao. The biggest changes happen in adolescence. Plus girls develop faster, usually in the early 20’s

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Anonymous #4 13w

sounds exactly like what someone would say if their brain wasn’t developed enough to fully understand when they’re in a dangerous situation

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