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Chat I am in need of some advice! So this me and this guy started met in like late February however over the past 3-4 months we started to really begin talking. Well a few weeks ago he told me he was talking to this other woman and I told him yk okay
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Anonymous 3w

stop talking to him. don’t let him play you like that. he’s treating you like a second option. you’re worth a million times more than that.

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Anonymous 3w

That’s fine whatever (I mentally crashed tf out obvi) however he told me that no matter where the relationship went with this girl he would still like to be friends. I told him I was okay with that however he’s only hung out with this girl at the restaurant she works at. He’s tried to arrange for them to hang out outside of the restaurant yet every time something is planned she cancels on him; BUT they consistently talk all throughout the day. Now tbf from what I’ve been told she has some

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Anonymous 3w

Personal issues going on and so on. Yet through out them talkin he has sent like "drunken" messages saying that if they don't work out he's gonna go for me and all that other bs stuff right and I'm very confused as to what to do because l've placed the distance and so has he however I'm just at a complete loss. I truly wish nothing but the best for them however if it doesn't work out I don't want to be second best but I do still genuinely like this guy and don't know what to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m thinking that might honestly be my best bet bc I do genuinely care for him and everything in-between but I can’t risk my mental wellbeing for someone who could careless about me ORRRR my other thought process (a bit more devious and evil) is to simply play the game right back bc again I really do hope that things work out for them but if it doesn’t and he’s still got the idea of “ooh I can come running back! she’ll take me back” I will kindly say “fuck you” back (immature Ik but I’d explain)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

if you think about it, you playing his game could really mess up your mental wellbeing. i know what he is doing is hurtful, but i absolutely do not recommend playing his game back to him. i’ve done that before and it did NOT end well for me.

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