Anonymous #1 14h

🙄 alllll you talk about is how much sex ur having on here so yeah we get it

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it’s giving hypocrite “hate men but love dick every day” suuuuure

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stop pretending to hate men 🤷‍♀️

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What’s yours lying hypocrite

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Anonymous #4 13h

honestly as someone who is a virgin people act as if I don’t understand anything and that i couldn’t never understand unless i has done it or that i’m not like mature because of it

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Anonymous #6 13h

what do you mean “virgin”? ur talking about sex in the next comment down do you mean no sex at all or just PIV sex? bc you sound like you’ve had oral sex or anal sex or had some kind of sexual experience to me

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Is the shaming in the room with us??

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The context is in the fact that women are typically shamed FOR being virgins past a certain age 😭😭😭😭😭 some of yall just have to be a fucking victim knowing you’re the standard shit

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Anonymous #3 13h

like PIV i’ve giving head before about 3 years ago i have never done it since it was only with one older guy who took advantage

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Anonymous #6 13h

omgggg STOP acting like a “virgin” if you ALREADY HAD oral sex STOPPPP

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Anonymous #3 13h

i am a virgin i’ve never had sex i consider PIV losing your virginity

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Anonymous #6 13h

I have NEVER seen a man naked in my entire LIFE You girls are SO obnoxious. If you never did anything sexual in your whole life you can use that word otherwise stfu

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Anonymous #3 13h

i’ve never seen a guy naked in my life either who are you to tell me who i am

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Anonymous #6 13h

YOU GAVE A MAN HEAD. You saw his penis so YES you saw a man naked wtf are you lying about ?????

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Anonymous #6 13h

if you had sex before you NOT a virgin how many guys have you had oral sex or anal sex with? more than 0, NOT a virgin

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Anonymous #3 13h

a man being naked means not having clothes on he just pulled it out of his pants

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Anonymous #3 12h

Why are you shaming me wtf is your problem you do realize losing your virginity is mostly used when talking about PIV intercourse breaking your hymen and that’s what i consider it to be oral sex is not the same and like i said i was a child and taken advantage so wtf is is wrong with you

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Anonymous #6 12h

I HAVE NEVER SEEN A PENIS BEFORE GOT IT???? Like why are you pretending to not understand

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Anonymous #3 12h

good for you are you saying just because i was taken advantage of i can’t be a virgin like why are you so upset i just said i experience a certain type of attitude because i’ve never had penetrative sex

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It’s literally semantics and at this point you are just being a horrible person.

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if that’s how you took it then you’re just projecting your insecurities bc no one said that lol

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can you please stop being so mean it was 1 guy my entire life and he took advantage of me i’ve never done anal never had a penis inside my vagina i am a virgin idk why you are so upset my friends has never even kissed a boy and still acknowledges me as a virgin because i’ve never had PIV sex thats what we consider losing our virginity if you don’t that’s okay but stop shaming women

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Anonymous #10 12h

it’s actually really upsetting because he treated me like shit and i thought i had to to get him to love me and to hear this women hating on me for no reason is honestly insane i’ve never been with a man since i was 15 years old i’m 18 now

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Anonymous #6 12h

now it’s taken advantage of??! 3 years ago??? people have sex when they’re teens that’s not taken advantage of and I bet he’s not the first penis you’ve seen either or the only guy you were with. quit acting like you never had any sex partners it’s super annoying for us who ACTUALLY never did

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Anonymous #3 12h

go back i said it in my earlier text i said he took advantage and oral sex is not losing your virginity to me it was the first guy i ever liked and he used me i was 15 years old i think you’re triggered because you believe if i say i’m a virgin that makes me just as pure as you and you wanna say you a more pure than me okay cool but stop shaming women for no reason

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Anonymous #6 12h

I am sick and TIRED of reading people say they had oral and anal multiple times even with many men and acting like they still have “virginity” no they dont I dont know ur situation I made assumptions that were wrong but if you have sex thats it, doesnt need to be PIV thats all Im saying

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Anonymous #3 12h

for you maybe but not for me it was one guy my entire 18 years of life i was 15 i loved him he took advantage and i thought i had to give him oral to be loved back he didn’t and we stopped talking i’ve never talked to a man since. I am straight and i consider myself a virgin because i’ve never had PIV intercourse many people consider this to be true if you don’t that’s okay but thats what i believe it’s okay to believe different thinks but its not okay to attack me for it especially a women

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Anonymous #3 12h

ur just plain fucking rude #3. virginity is a social construct and has different definitions in different cultural and personal contexts. for example, the argoba people of ethiopia consider rubbing, heavy kissing, and other external contact adjacent to losing virginity. just because someone doesn’t conform to your definition of virginity doesn’t mean they can’t be a virgin. if a woman is raped, for example, would you argue with her if she still called herself a virgin?

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Anonymous #12 12h

I’ve dated a few guys and they have tried to pressure me, but I didn’t until my bf now. He made me feel safe and we were ready for that step so we had a talk about it before, set boundaries, etc.

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Anonymous #12 12h

that’s not late AT ALL if ur 21+ and virgin then we can talk

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Anonymous #1 12h

Absolutely, but that’s also not the point of the post. It’s like saying “all lives matter” when someone is talking about BLM (obviously I am not at ALL comparing virginity to the BLM movement, it’s just the only semantic example I could think of).

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Anonymous #13 12h

This is exactly what I was trying to explain, and I didn’t know if I could say the last part you said, but I 100% agree it’s all made up, and people consider it different things. I was just trying to tell people that I have been treated differently for not having PIV sex and she started to treat me as if i have 100 bodies talking about how I bet you have had sex with many people, like no, I haven’t.

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Anonymous #6 12h

i know, it’s gross of them to infer things about your sex life and force their standards of virginity onto you. as taboo as it may sound, i am of the belief that anyone who considers themself a virgin is a virgin. idc if they’ve slept with 100 people or no people, if that’s what they say they are, then i’ll respect it.

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Anonymous #3 12h

It isn’t really late, but where I grew up, you were falling behind if you hadn’t by 15. I knew 3 people who were pregnant or had kids before senior year of high school

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Anonymous #12 12h

Ok good for you but I am sick of people saying 18 is late when it’s just not and yes I am talking about NO sex of ANY kind, not just PIV sex like some people here as saying which is annoying

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Frrr I'm tired of people being purposely obtuse lol

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Anonymous #13 12h

Ok see this is EXACTLY what I’m talking about my WHOLE POINT is that if you had sex with people please stop acting like ur a virgin just stop it it’s annoying at least be honest if someone asks if youve had sex before, not just PIV

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Anonymous #12 12h

most people lose their virginity at 15-16 so don’t listen to that stupid bitch she’s just trying to control how everyone feels about their sexuality

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Anonymous #6 12h

No I said 18 is not late at all if ur in ur 20s or smth then its later

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Anonymous #3 12h

Like 25 is late

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Anonymous #3 12h

nobody asked you stop acting like your option is what goes and that everyone believes what you believe

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Anonymous #6 12h

Different communities believe different things depending on where you are in the world or who you grew up around. Everyone has different beliefs

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Anonymous #12 12h

That’s exactly what i’m trying to says #3 is trying to argue with my virginity because i don’t conform to her belief of virginity

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Anonymous #6 12h

There is no difference in a human while being a virgin vs not. It is something that humans made up

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Anonymous #12 12h

ok so what age were you sexually active of any kind of sex? no not just PIV yes any kind of sex let me guess, are you also only counting PIV 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous #12 12h

i know it’s all made up but i believe if i have never had PIV sexually intercourse i am “a virgin” she’s saying any sexual contact is losing your virginity

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Anonymous #12 12h

yeah but sex is something that some people are experiencing and others are not so that missing out part is not made up.. at all

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Anonymous #3 12h

That is all of the above. Not that it affects you. Idk why you care so much about what I do with MY body

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… this didn’t hit the way you thought it would

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Anonymous #8 12h

My best advice is to not just sleep with anyone you find attractive, truly know who they are. It sucks talking to a guy then him leaving as soon as he gets what he wants :(

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The original definition of losing your virgin as a women is having PIV sex NOBODY CARES WHAT YOU THINK

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I didn’t do ANYTHING before this point. Virginity is something that people made up to shame others.

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Anonymous #12 12h

I am so sorry that she’s treating you like this she’s doing it in the chat above we should just block her

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Anonymous #6 12h

Thank you so much. You seem like a really good person

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Anonymous #12 12h

You too. I hate seeing women go around tearing each other apart for this pure Olympics that don’t even exist and telling people who they believe they are.

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Anonymous #12 12h

i’m just gonna block her because she’s making me upset and i don’t want that in my life

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Anonymous #6 12h

Me too

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Anonymous #13 11h

I think they’re mentioning that bc this community can be very sex negative and can shame women for having certain sexual experiences. I didn’t realize until recently that I was internalizing the sex negative view that’s common on here and shaming myself for being a “slut”

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Anonymous #15 11h

Being a “slut” in my opinion means sleeping around in an irresponsible way. Like sleeping with taken men, not getting testing and sleeping with multiple people a day or week. I used to be fairly slutty because I thought sex would make me feel better about myself. Turns out only truly loving yourself will make you feel better about yourself 😭😭

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Bro what 💀 there's this thing called CONTEXT CLUES but maybe you missed that lesson idk 😂

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Anonymous #14 11h

No you’re usually called a slut for having “too many” sexual partners (in total), for having casual sex or for sleeping with someone “too soon”. Also nothing wrong with sleeping with multiple ppl a day/week as long as you’re using protection. Nothing inherently irresponsible about that. The other things you described are just shitty things to do as a person

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Anonymous #15 11h

Society is an interesting place ngl. Bc in the 70s and 80s everyone was sleeping with everyone and no one used condoms but all of a sudden it’s wrong

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Anonymous #3 11h

i luh dih

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Anonymous #16 11h

period do whatever the fuck you want with your body NOBODY LISTEN TO NUMBER 3 THEY ARE SICK AND MEAN

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Anonymous #6 11h

Ig I already blocked them a while ago bc I can’t see their comments lmao

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Anonymous #14 11h

yeah they are honestly so mean and trying to control what everyone believes

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Anonymous #17 11h

Ofc women need to stick together and not tear each other apart and that women was a bully

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Anonymous #18 11h

you do realize nuns and priests exist right and they give their lives to god and don’t have sex that would make no sense does that mean that babies or children that die are sinners like what crazy shit you been taken

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Anonymous #18 11h

Why are you spreading misinformation??

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Anonymous #3 11h

Most of the girls I grew up with, myself included, had “hookups” in high school. But when we talked about losing our virginity, we meant penetrative sex. I personally don't consider giving head to be losing your virginity lol.

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Anonymous #3 11h

That might be annoying to you, but your feelings don't make something a fact. Stop acting like that’s a new concept. 🤣

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Anonymous #20 10h

let me guess… you had oral sex before or anal? so many here think that doesnt count 🙄

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Anonymous #3 10h

Right so no im actually a virgin

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Anonymous #1 10h

I think we all sing

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Anonymous #20 10h

Girl toys are sometimes better than the real thing bc a lot of guys have no idea what they’re doing and only care about themselves :(

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Anonymous #21 10h

deadass what is their issue

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Anonymous #3 10h

there is no “late” here. people can do what they want when they want as long as it’s consensual. this is so judgmental.

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Anonymous #14 9h

Luckily this man started calling me baby after we did stuff! We haven’t gone all the way yet but even if we do and he leaves me I’ll find someone else. I’ve never really cared for having a long term partner so it might sting but I also won’t die

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Anonymous #28 8h

Why?

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Anonymous #20 8h

Why don’t you want to?

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Anonymous #22 8h

Wahahahha why has this comment not got more up votes in DEAD! 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous #19 8h

🙄 giving head MEANS you had oral sex you had oral sex “including you”? yeah you HOOKED UP WITH GUYS that means you had sex partners

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Anonymous #3 8h

Can #3 Shut-up? Like shhhhhh. If you don’t have anything nice to say…don’t say it at all.

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Anonymous #6 8h

No for real they’re being very cruel. Blocking now.

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Anonymous #19 8h

Same here girl don’t listen to number three she is a crazy women who can’t understand people have different beliefs i believe PIV sex is losing my virginity don’t let her make you feel insecure or upset block her

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Anonymous #6 8h

Are you okay?

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Anonymous #6 8h

I can’t even see that catastrophe. Had her blocked for some time now, apparently.

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Anonymous #24 8h

i am okay i blocked her a couple hours ago she said because i gave head to 1 boy and never have done anything else and it was older boy who took advantage of me she proceeds to say i'm not a virgin and that i probably have had sex with multiple partners i'm like girl why are you trying to tell me what i believe like most people don't consider giving head to be losing your virginity.

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Anonymous #20 8h

riiight someone above said they gave head and handjobs saying they still a virgin 🤦‍♀️ really hope thats not what you mean 🙄

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Anonymous #3 8h

girl can you PLEASE shut the fuck up. jesus fucking christ damn you are irritating

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Anonymous #21 8h

bc too many liars on here

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Anonymous gothgymrat 8h

am I wrong? they said theyre virgin and my point is what I said

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Anonymous #28 8h

That’s your opinion

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Anonymous #6 8h

Aweee girl I’m so so sorry. Hope you are okayyyy!

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Anonymous #8 8h

You’re much stronger than me bc I always feel used and disposed of when that happens. It’s part of the reason I became celibate, it was hurting my self image because I didn’t understand why men treated me that way

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Anonymous #31 6h

point is you HAVE had sex partners when ppl say virgin they usually mean 0 sex partners so as long as ur honest you had sex partners

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Anonymous #32 5h

well by virgin have you given or done oral? Bc if you had some kind of sex before then you had a sex partner

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Anonymous #3 5h

i haven’t had penetrative sex

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Anonymous #32 5h

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️omggg so ur one of those?? my question is if you had oral sex with any men before

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Anonymous #32 5h

if you had oral sex with guys then you HAD sex partners

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Anonymous #32 5h

YOU ARE ***NOT*** A VIRGIN so tired of reading shit like this

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Anonymous #3 5h

what’s wrong with you bitch

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Anonymous #3 5h

how about “it’s none of your fucking business what other people’s sex lives entail!” how about that one? :)

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Anonymous #32 5h

I said if you had sex partners and gave blowjobs or handjobs or anal sex you ARE NOTTT a virgin bc you have SEX partners

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Anonymous #32 5h

what’s hard to understand? if you have sex partners its not 0

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Anonymous #3 5h

omg you’re so obsessed with other people’s sex lives, you’ve been on yikyak all fucking day give it up it’s giving, and i absolutely HATE using this word in any other context, femcel🙌

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Anonymous #13 5h

🙄 if you gave MEN blowjobs then yes you had SEX and what bout you? same story? are you another who calls urself virgin and has oral sex handjobs and anal 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous #3 5h

and not to mention u were real quiet at my point earlier about the cultural complexities of virginity as a social construct. you don’t have anything to back up your stance but hatred and ignorance.

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Anonymous #13 5h

MY stance is you have sex partners then its not 0, thats alll

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Anonymous #3 5h

still zero critical thinking okay you might just be hopeless

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Anonymous #3 5h

i’m not the one whining on yikyak ALL DAY. and you’re literally proving my point about prying into everyone’s sex lives for no reason. you’re obsessed, and you myopic world view is clearly a result of internalized misogyny and a lack of education.

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Anonymous #13 5h

idc you didnt answer DID you? do YOU call urself a virgin or not, thats what this is about dont say that if you had sex partners and yeah oral sex handjobs anal all count as sex

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Anonymous #3 5h

LMFAO all i can do is laugh atp 😭 i’m not feeding into your delusion by divulging my private information to you. that’s completely beside the point. i was trying to be objective but clearly all you care about is “BLOW JOBS ANAL SEX HAND JOBS OMG UR NOT A VIRGIN WAH WAH WAH” so stay mad and respectfully have a good night.

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Anonymous #13 5h

YEAH just what I thought dont come here pretending to be a virgin you had sex with MEN many times so dont come here pretending when ur sex partners are a loootttt more than 0 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #13 5h

OMG SHE GOT BANNED FUCK YES! (That or she just blocked me, although I hope it’s the former LOL)

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Anonymous #3 51m

why are you so miserable because you can’t get anyone to touch you lmao this reeks of jealousy

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