
I mean clearly it’s about a 50-50 chance that the *woman* wants it. While there are definitely some men who would use it as an opportunity to exert physical force, there’s also got to be a chunk who only do it because their partner *wants* them to do it and any pleasure they get from it is causal not correlative. I also do think there is a jump between some hair tugs and full on slaps. Again, I still think it’s a little weird but it certainly isn’t solely “men want to hit their partners”