Step 1: be with somebody who cares about you and is happy taking things as slow as you feel comfortable

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Step 2: wait until you feel like you want to get closer to them, like you can’t stop thinking about it. It helps to lightly put a hand on their shoulder, jawline, or chest as you lean in. Close your eyes and tilt your head like 45° so your noses don’t smush. Then make kissy lips and go for it. It won’t be perfect the first time but that is totally normal and nobody should ever make you feel otherwise. Does that help?

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