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I’ve been talking to this guy for 5months and physically seeing him for 2 of those 5 months. We haven’t confirmed anything but lately he’s been kind of distant and not talking to me as much. I don’t want to over think it but I’m scared.
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Anonymous 3w

I say just outright ask him. Be like hey you seem kinda distant, and I was wondering what’s up or if you’re ok That forces him to say anything he isn’t bringing up. You might get an answer you don’t want but you deserve someone who will match your energy for you as you do for them. I guess I’d rather spend my time with someone genuine as opposed to them feeding into a bubble of fantasy for my sake. Also I’m super sorry if this comes off super harsh, I’m really blunt.

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Anonymous 3w

He’s everything I want and need and truly just perfect. When he text me it’s kind of short yet sweet unlike before when it was constant and he always made sure to talk to me at least 3 times out of the day. I’m not sure what to do. I don’t want to keep bothering him as if I’m begging for him to respond but I want to make it clear that I’m still very interested in him. Should I be worried there is someone else or simply maybe he’s busy or just not interested?

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Anonymous 3w

how long has he been like that?

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Anonymous 3w

Hopefully he responses soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It’s been about 2 weeks from the last time we hung out. When we hung out he was all over me calling me his baby and saying he likes me so much.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

If a man was acting like this without making it official I’d become violent personally

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I have been crashing out by myself so don’t think I haven’t gotten violent just not with him yet. Not trying to seem crazy but I want this man so badly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

No, thank you so much. I just asked him and so I’m waiting for a response. The waiting is the hardest but I would rather know now so I can continue to find my person and find the love I deserve

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You deserve it 👏🏻 wishing you the best ✨

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