Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
what are some of your guy’s relationship non-negotiables? my therapist told me to start thinking of them, but I can’t start the ball rolling
upvote 2 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

Here’s what I have and I can go into more detail abt some of these: Respects your boundaries/doesn’t push, Christian, can dance AND wants to, Ag, good listener, respects your time, respects others/manners, traditional values but not an objectifier/man-whore/douche, doesn’t make fun of others as his main sense of humor

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m southern, and the same thing means 2 stepping or swing dancing. I’ve gotten into it since college, and I noticed my mom was the same when she was my age. My dad knows how to, and that’s one thing she loves when they were dating. But now he doesn’t dance with her and I’ve seen how sad it makes her. And also it’s a test. If I’m talking to a guy and tell him it’s important and a deal breaker, then he says later that he won’t learn, then I know that’s just 1 thing of many that he won’t follow

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’ve also noticed that ppl who make fun of others, it’s either projection, low hanging fruit (low intellect?), and/or didn’t grow up past high school (immature)

upvote 1 downvote