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Girl Talk 6d
tbh i don’t really want to date bc im not interested in sex and having a bf just seems kind of annoying but i still go on dating apps bc what if i find someone i can be obsessed with. that might change my stance on dating
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Anonymous 6d

i think going for looks may backfire on you in the future. personality is king at the end of the day. the version of pedro pascal you know is not only one with layers of airbrush and makeup, but also filtered through agents and media

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Anonymous 6d

don’t settle. if you want someone attractive keep going for attractive people. either you’ll find someone with a good personality and it’ll be a win/win or you won’t, but either way you won’t be settling for someone you’re not that into

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Anonymous 6d

like i don’t wanna date but i would def date pedro pascal in a heartbeat ya know? so what if i find someone who is just insanely hot and perfect. it hasn’t happened yet but maybe one day. but until then im not really interested bc everyone is mid at best and not really worth the trouble

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Anonymous 6d

I feel like this is kinda unfair to people on dating apps who are actually trying to find something I won’t lie

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

my sister says i’m immature and need to learn that mid men will become attractive once i start talking to them. she said don’t go for guys who look good in their profile pics bc guys who know how to take good pictures of themselves are whores

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

perhaps in the future you’ll grow into realizing what’s important in a relationship bc this ain’t it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Definitely this bc looks can take you so far but personality is more permanent bc morals n stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

u guys i don’t know if i’m capable of meeting people off dating apps then bc i literally cannot start talking to someone with the goal of romance in mind unless they are good looking. like why would i match with someone if i didn’t find them attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

well i’m trying to find someone kind of

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

how is it unfair

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

they just have to be someone that i like

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

yeah also i’m not like taking a limited resource

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

The way your first post was phrased made it seem like you weren’t really planning on going any dates. It’s not like a resource thing it’s more just I think you should be clear with your intentions

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I think you kind of need to fix your priorities, don’t talk to ppl just bc of romance bc obviously only ppl you find attractive would be who you talk to but you’re probs missing some connections

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

well it’s not like i’m chatting with people. i mostly ignore everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

well i can talk to people as friends but i dont really meet new people anymore bc i dont like it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

i don’t think i actually want to date i think i just want like someone i can hold hands with for 5 minutes a day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

You’re sounding like my aro friend lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

its perfectly fine to match with looks in mind! you need to be attracted to the person you will potentially date. so you can just browse on the app to see if anyone looks interesting, no pressure (that's what i did for 2 yrs before ever going on an actual date w someone 💀). and once you feel ready to go on dates, you can try to match and get a conversation going. during the convo if you want, you can emphasize that you like going slow and prefer a solid connection before any labels

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