am i wrong to assume that a guy is only putting in as much effort as he thinks he needs to? i think i'm making it too easy for him so he's not trying hard but i want to know he cares
like continuing to talk to him after he leaves me on read or like needs to rain check last minute and stuff
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AnonymousOP11w
i meant it's easy for him bc he doesn't have to do much to impress me so i feel like he knows that and then doesn't try hard
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AnonymousOP11w
Ohh I get you then. Maybe don’t continue to talk and see if he reaches out? Or straight up tell him you wanna see more effort if he wants this to go anywhere.
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Anonymous#111w
i think you're right but both options feel sucky bc i don't wanna face rejection
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AnonymousOP11w
rejections better than being breadcrumbed a whole relationship
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Anonymous#111w
this is what I'm slowly trying....it's a hard habit to break, but I want us to last without feeling as though I'm carrying the whole relationship on my back