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Is it a horrible plan to loose my v card to hookup tn? I just want it gone
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Anonymous 5d

virginity is a social construct. as long as you feel safe and genuinely want to have sex you should do it. use protection be safe etc etc but yeah if you don’t want to be a virgin do it lady

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Anonymous 5d

I did mine! No regrets I needed it out of the way. Ironically HE was super mad 😂

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Anonymous 5d

Yes, virginity is a social construct but sleeping with someone is a big deal, especially if it’s your FIRST time. You’re free to do what you want OP but it may hurt you in the long run

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Anonymous 5d

I just did Friday girl do it

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Anonymous 5d

i mean i don’t think you need to wait for a relationship i think what matters more is if the person is at least someone trustworthy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Lmfao I wasn’t gonna disclose it either!! I told him I had one body😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Wdym hurt me? It can’t possibly do that much?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Do it ladyyyy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

There’s research showing that casual sex can lead to relationship issues and stuff, granted that’s long term but just take care of yourself and enforce your own boundaries and you should be fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

not to be pedantic but it’s a big deal to some people. i know it would mean a lot to me just bc of my life but to someone else it doesn’t even register. if op feels comfortable doing it it’s not a big deal

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5d

and make sure your own mental health is good too like if you don’t like stuff say no, but you def should know what’s best for you it’s your own body

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Not physically. Emotionally & mentally. Obviously varies person to person but for the vast majority their first is the most important (maybe that’s from social pressure idk). Whatever you feel most comfortable with OP! I was just suggesting that maybe it’s better to wait to be with someone you truly value so there’s no regrets:)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

i feel like for a lot it’s just one time out of all the other times idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Was it good? Did it hurt?

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