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my biggest insecurity is how boring and awkward i am i get approached and guys will think im attractive but i cant hold a single conversation and mention the weather every time. guys it’s so bad and idek what to do
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Anonymous 4d

i’m lowkey like this and i used dating apps to practice talking to men 😭

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Anonymous 4d

Dm?

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Anonymous 4d

This is so real omg

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

does it help?? i don’t like dating apps bc honestly i just don’t get super attracted to guys until i befriend them first.. but maybe i’ll try this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

yes! it’s genuinely helped me feel more comfortable talking to men even in person as someone who literally has never had a male friend and the only guys around my age i ever talked to growing up were my brothers 😭 like i’ve improved so much and realized they’re literally just people like us and it deconstructed this weird thought that i had that they were sooo different than me and girls in general. ik that seems like a lot but im so serious it’s helped so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

waittt you described my thoughts exactly., it’s such a mental block i face 💀 okok which app do you think is best? i’m guessing hinge/bumble but not tinder?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

yeah definitely hinge first until u get a little more comfortable with coming up with what to say then bumble bc on bumble the girls have to message first

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