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being the mom roommate is exhausting. do i love to cook, yes. do i wanna make sure my friends are safe, yes. but it doesn’t end. i love them and would do anything for them but im so tired😭
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Anonymous 8w

Have you talked to them about this? When I talked to my friend group about how I felt like I got made into the den mother every time we did stuff together, they said they hadn’t realized and actually started taking some of it off my plate. I can’t guarantee it’ll fix anything, but it also might.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

i haven’t. i don’t want them to feel burdensome. i rlly do like providing for us all, doing bday parties, helping w religious holidays etc. but…im tired. we do roommate meetings every sunday to debrief our weeks and go over chores so i’ll maybe bring it up this wk.

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