
Dirty or don’t take care of yourself. It’s pretty common too. I bring it up because I unfortunately have hsv-2 and it’s incurable. My ex had it and didn’t know and contracted it to me my first time. I feel scared to date or share it with anyone. Because people think herpes are nasty or you’ll infect them too. Which isn’t the case. So please educate yourselves everyone on all types of infections and diseases and make sure you’re not treating someone differently if they have it. Hiv included.
I didn’t say it wasn’t everyone has there choice. I’m saying don’t make someone feel bad because of it especially if it wasn’t their fault. Also you saying “I don’t want herpes” still stigmatizes it. If a person who has either is taking their medicine they won’t spread it. Lastly you probably have herpes hsv-1 that’s the common one people have. Educate yourself.