i understand, but if it helps, we can’t control when we lose people, even with the best of planning people have to say goodbye to their children (and it’ll almost always feel too soon). just think how much life they had already lived & they still knew that they wanted you in it, sending love tho 🫶
Think about it this way, aren’t you glad to have the time you have together now? Instead of, say, your parents having kids when they were younger and not ready, possibly leading to neglect and a crappy family? Not trying to be harsh but it’s better you were planned and loved! I have older parents too, It’s hard but love them while you got em🩷