
get nexplanon, its the most effective(even moreso than an iud) and its an implant in the arm instead of straight busting ur shit open the only issue is that its hormone based and may fuck up (or could alleviate) ur period, i had a hg on it and it made her not have her period for months at a time.
That’s honestly part of the reason I got on bc, everyone’s experience will be different so I don’t blame you for avoiding an iud but for me the cramps didn’t really get worse, they were just kinda frequent. They warned me before I got it that it might make me feel like I’m having some mild period cramps even when I’m not on my period for a bit after getting it