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Is it unrealistic to expect someone I date to not watch porn?
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Anonymous 1w

Not at all. That is a normal thing to expect in a relationship. Why would you want to watch tha stuff when you’re dating someone? I mean, a relationship should absolutely be enough.

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Anonymous 1w

Our generation of men is extremely porn-addicted but that is a normal expectation. I have a bf who honestly doesn’t. They have to make the decision based on their own morals tho, not bc you asked them.

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Anonymous 1w

Nah that’s valid

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Anonymous 1w

No, unless you don’t communicate that and expect them to know. Different relationships have different expectations. Just communicate.

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Anonymous 1w

it’s not unrealistic at all

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Anonymous 1w

i myself don’t watch it so i don’t think it’s unrealistic. i know of people who get off seeing or thinking of their partner.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I absolutely agree. When I post this question in other forums, people act like all men are horndogs with no self control and that I’m never gonna find a man with that standard… it’s too normalized

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I hate that it’s the standard :( I get that some girls might not care but society is way too filled with lust

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah it’s an unfortunate side effect of just growing up on the internet era. I will say, I’m in a relationship and sometimes we’ll find something to watch 𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 if we’re in the mood for inspiration and new ideas, but he was never someone who was super into that sorta thing, even before we started dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I think that watching being considered cheating should be the default tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

That’s totally valid in ur relationship, for me, I don’t rlly mind (and I read too much erotica for that to be fair)

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