Girl Talk on Yik Yak | I hope this doesn’t sound too mean. I joined BumbleBFF to try and make more friends and after going on there I can see why SOME of them have no friends. No conversational skills, only talk about themselves/their problems/their boyfriends

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Girl Talk 13w

I hope this doesn’t sound too mean. I joined BumbleBFF to try and make more friends and after going on there I can see why SOME of them have no friends. No conversational skills, only talk about themselves/their problems/their boyfriends —

Anonymous 13w

One girl and I were talking about body image issues and when it was my turn to vent she sent a pic of herself in a bikini saying “I’m not skinny” YOU ARE A SIZE 6 STFU. I’m plus-size so this kind of annoyed me honestly because there was no fat anywhere on her body. Insecurities are valid but that just felt off to me

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Anonymous 13w

I tried it but u can’t expect anti social people to connect w other anti social people (Same w introverts)

Anonymous 13w

i feel bad about this but i never joined bumble bff bc i have stereotyped the people who would join it. which is hypocritical bc im absolutely someone who could benefit from it

Anonymous

OP 13w

Or some of the girls just seem immature. Some of them I’ve added on other social medias and post cringey middle school stuff on their PUBLIC stories. I mean stuff on the same level as sad Bart edits and “no one hmu only the real ones know what’s up” we are in our early 20s

Anonymous

#1 13w

Honestly valid. I tried to keep an open mind because there aren’t too many girls in my classes so it’s hard for me to make more girl friends in school. I’ve met girls who are in the same boat, or focused more on school than social events, new to the area, or just need some friends

Anonymous

OP 13w

have you met with any irl?

Anonymous

OP 13w

I try not to hold it against them too much because I know not everyone has a support system but it’s just a pattern I’ve noticed

Anonymous

#1 13w

I haven’t met any irl YET. It’s just been a lot of phone tag and of course the girls I really got along with stopped replying after a while unfortunately

Anonymous

OP 13w

yeah, might have more luck when the semester starts up again. i might try it out then

Anonymous

#1 13w

Yeah I’d encourage it. Nothing wrong with putting yourself out there at least :) the worst thing that happens is that you don’t meet anyone but you never know!

Anonymous

raggoon 13w

Honestly good insight! I’m more introverted (just shy really) but it’s so hard to meet people on there. I know that not everyone is the same as I am but it’s just rough