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i’m a very alone 20 yo. last month, since i’m so alone, i was okay talking to a 32 yo man. he told me he liked that i was only 20. bc i was more “impressionable.” he wanted to find a woman he could legally groom. so thankful i got out of that when i did.
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Anonymous 4w

Oof. Not every older person is a predator for age gap relationships but this one definitely is. Yikesyikesyikes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i think most ppl in their 30s that are okay with flirting with 20 year olds are predators. bc they always back it up with “hey, it’s legal!” if they need the law to support their argument instead of using morals, it says something (at least to me) but yeah, either way, this one definitely is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

most 30 year olds that seek out ppl in their young 20’s or even teens are absolutely predatory. 30 year olds have no business with people under the age of 25.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Some of them genuinely are fine. Like not seeking out younger women just happens to fall for one. Relationships are highly highly individual. But the red flags are always important to watch for in any relationship. Anyone specifically looking for you to be impressionable is not with you for good reasons. Might that be because of age, maturity level, disability, education level, upbringing, etc. a lot of guys out there are preds with bad intentions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

no business being with**

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