
i think most ppl in their 30s that are okay with flirting with 20 year olds are predators. bc they always back it up with “hey, it’s legal!” if they need the law to support their argument instead of using morals, it says something (at least to me) but yeah, either way, this one definitely is.
Some of them genuinely are fine. Like not seeking out younger women just happens to fall for one. Relationships are highly highly individual. But the red flags are always important to watch for in any relationship. Anyone specifically looking for you to be impressionable is not with you for good reasons. Might that be because of age, maturity level, disability, education level, upbringing, etc. a lot of guys out there are preds with bad intentions