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he’s an amazing guy, we’re so similar and so different but he has one con…maybe not a con but definitely beige…he has a 4 year old daughter. he’s 27 btw i’m 24.
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Anonymous 3w

I feel like if you see his daughter as a con this might not be a long lasting thing.. that’s his family, his child😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

omg no!! i don’t at all, my niece actually isn’t my biological niece, she’s my SIL child from her previous relationship. i don’t see it as a CON AT ALL! i meant more like maybe a beige flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

exactly, i told him it’s not a burden and his daughter comes first always (:

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

he only sees his daughter for his birthday and her birthday and holiday in december. he does try to facetime her everyday so. he’s here in NJ/NY she’s down in FL with his daughters mom

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i guess someone here told me something yesterday and made me feel bad :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oh, I’m sorry. Thanks for giving more context. At the end of the day you know the situation best, so don’t let any stranger on the internet put doubts in your head. If you think you guys can make it work and be happy, I think that’s a beautiful thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

honestly if you like him and can make it work with him, or at least try, then why not! who cares what ppl say here i promise most of the time it’s like 18-21 yr olds (myself included), who would NOT fw kid for obvious reasons, giving advice. you’re grown and can make good decisions for yourself. test the waters with him! 😛

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