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Girl Talk 7w
so idk what to do. i found out my bf cheated on me when he was in Europe but he was heavily drunk and normally doesn’t drink. 2 girls kissed him and he was really out of it but he didn’t stop them. we have been dating for over 2 years …
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Anonymous 7w

honestly, if he was very drunk to the point where he was super out of it, he probably wasn’t sober enough to consent to being kissed. and like throwing up every day in disgust? it sounds like he was taken advantage of while intoxicated rather than cheating

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Anonymous 7w

You should definitely talk to someone equipped to handle this like a therapist. Asking people online is just gonna get you very polarized answers, some of which may help, some of which may make it worse. I’m so sorry for this difficult time babe. I truly hope you find answers

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Anonymous 7w

it sounds like he was sexually assaulted tbh

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Anonymous 7w

what do i do. Do i stay do i leave he is an amazing man and is like throwing up every day because he’s disgusted with himself but i am scared to give him another chance. but he is my best friend. Please advice

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Anonymous 7w

also checked his entire phone never any signs of anything doesn’t text girls or snap them like everything’s clear and this was just that night bc they threw themselves at him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

thank youi needed this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

i agree with this but the whole thing still scares me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

scares u in what ways? that’s a completely valid reaction to have, i think u might benefit from writing all ur feelings out so u can start to process everything. then, i think u should sit down with him and ask him if he feels like he was too drunk to consent, and express ur support for him and how being taken advantage of isnt his fault. i hope u can work this all out 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

thank you. you have helped me immensely. it scares me that these girls did this and also that he didn’t like get away from it but he was so drunk and i wasn’t there so like idk the full situation but i just am in general shocked by all of this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

i’m glad to have helped. all of those feelings are valid and make sense to feel, it’s a lot to process

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