Ya, and it genuinely hurts my heart so much because I finally have a man in my life who I love and I would love to make a dad. He wants to be a dad and I want him to be the father of my kids but I’m so scared because I have pretty bad pcos and miscarriages are 30-50% more common with pcos.

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I was already so scared of pregnancy complications and body changes (I have PCOS) and recently I’ve been more open to the idea, but with all of this happening… I can’t feel safe having a kid knowing that I’m risking not only my body and maybe my life during the pregnancy, but also my freedom if something goes wrong and I don't die. To know that doctors could choose a fetus over me is just. It’s devastating. Am I not valuable enough on my own?

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The twisted things we come up with now a days is actually terrifying. I was really excited to be a mom and now I don’t think I can do it. The pregnancy alone like yall were saying is scary that miscarriages are being seen as murder, when it’s just unfortunately sometimes something that happened. Where’s the support for us? Very scary and feeling a little helpless with what to do abt all of it

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Sadly states always take it to extremes California did not give a fuck when I had a miscarriage and was in the hospital and offered me Tylenol and didn’t even give it to me, didn’t let me drink water for some reason ?? And I know a woman who fainted while having a miscarriage bc she was hemorrhaging in the lobby and waited for hours

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i’m from georgia, with this and the adrianna smith mess… i’m feeling less and less comfortable becoming a mother here.

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