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i just broke up with my boyfriend, feel like i can finally breathe again. but damn 3 years gone.
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Anonymous 7w

Girl please give me your strength cause I may be breaking away from my 3 years soon 😭

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Anonymous 7w

Lend me your strength I think I have to break up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years 😭 I still love him I just don’t think we’re compatible 😭

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Anonymous 7w

Not gone, just concluded

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Anonymous 7w

broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years 5 years ago and am thriving w my boo! we get oysters together every weekend and hes my best friend. a man youre thinking about breaking up with (esp during school) is not worth it! ever!

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Anonymous 7w

3 years LEARNED babe! no love spent is ever love wasted 💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

you’re right, i like this thinking. thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

honestly i don’t think the strength was ever fully there, it’s such a hard thing to do but truthfully the decision was made in my head. he had lied to me for 8 months, so i was really angry which honestly did help because i wanted answers. i’m sending you so much love and good wishes in this! do what’s needed for you, and whatever will help you grow. the love you guys shared will forever be there within memories, but if that love is not what you need, listen to your gut girl. i’m just a dm away!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

this gives me a lot of hope, thank you!! i’m really worried i won’t find someone who will love me like that or better, even tho i know it’s possible. i just don’t really wanna accept it because i wanted it to be him. but you’re so right, and im grateful to now focus on the things i couldn’t before because of the hurt that was caused. i’m so happy you were able to find the right one ❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

and that’s totally okay gf!! 100% normal. i loved mine so much, and i still do. i forever will regardless of the hurt he caused me. he was important in my life for 3 years, the same way yours has been for 2. the transparency is what’s needed before resentment builds !! follow your heart and gut, as much as i didn’t want to believe it.. it often knows the truth

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