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Girl Talk 9w
i’m sorry but having a house AND a BABY together before getting married is absolutely insane. yall are literally already tied together in two huge ways, what possible reason is there to not call it official?? so weird to me
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Anonymous 9w

me and my man found out abt our little boy unexpectedly, we knew we want to get married but it was all god’s timing not ours soooo now we wait until a wedding can fit into our schedules 🤣

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Anonymous 9w

most of the people i’ve met like this just don’t believe they need to, they never plan on getting married ever for whatever reason

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Anonymous 9w

This is like that one tiktok couple that’s been together since they were teens, even got pregnant and she makes joking reels of waiting for a proposal and it hasn’t happened it started pissing me off cause what😭😭😭

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Anonymous 9w

It’s because not everyone wants to be married. Oprah and her partner have been together for over 35 years & they’re not married. Today marriage for a lot of people doesn’t mean anything.

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Anonymous 9w

there’s a girl i follow on tik tok who has a house, two whole kids and has been engaged for years but still isn’t married

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Anonymous 8w

Some people simply don’t believe in marriage

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Anonymous 8w

I mean not everyone wants to get married. It could just be a financial decision like maybe they don’t wanna tie up their money idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

so it’s not like they did the steps in the wrong order they were just never getting married

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

omg no that’s so understandable!! i more so mean people who are planning out and starting to have their planned out families. yet they wont get married. i totally get that things happen unplanned :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

and that’s what i find odd honestly, like why would you not if you’re already tied together in every other way? plus doesn’t being married help with taxes and financial stuff too? (idk much about that lol)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

most i’ve talked to call it pointless, i personally disagree, but they’d say it wouldn’t change anything about their commitment to one another & had no interest in getting married

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

No yeah the “we don’t know if we’re ready” when actively making decisions as a married couple is odd, it’s like they’re scared to verbally commit but physically they’re all in

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

so basicallyyy someone’s gotta be lying in the relationship like one person’s way more inlove bc how are yall BOTH okay with tying yourself together through dna and not through a piece of paper 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

exactlyyy

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