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first date after a break up tn. I’m actually really nervous, feels like I’m doing something wrong almost as if we’re still together. is this normal?

Anonymous 3d

same situation with me!! dated for a year, broke up in november and are no contact. i met this guy two weeks later and i felt guilty but i can’t look back. they always come back but try new things. get back out there ❤️❤️

Anonymous 3d

How long were you and your ex together and how long ago did you break up?

Anonymous

#1 3d

for a year and we broke up a month ago!

Anonymous

OP 3d

no contact at all too. wiped from every social media. it’s just been harder bc we go to the same college so i sometimes see him around.

Anonymous

#2 3d

aww thank you for the encouragement!! I’m happy to hear this is normal. even tho I logically don’t ever wanna get back with him my heart is a little attached still I think. I’m excited for the new chapter for us both! 🤍

Anonymous

OP 3d

Ok so you shouldn’t feel bad but if you feel like you’re not ready to move on then you might need more time to heal. But don’t ever assume he’ll com back, it’s always a move forward situation and it’s also bc it’s a new person and after a year of dating it can be tough. But good luck tn!

Anonymous

#1 3d

thank you!! yes I think the whole starting over aspect is what’s hard just feels kinda weird but my ex was not a good person and I’ve just been trauma bonded to him so I feel I owe it to myself to take a true step in moving on if that makes sense.

Anonymous

OP 3d

Yea so it’ll definitely feel weird at first but it’s what you need. You don’t grow by staying in comfort you gotta feel weird but it’s ok to feel weird! It’s a new step for you!