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I don’t know if I have a dad anymore. I told him that the way we are now is not good and that we need to change and he needs to change and he told me he’s going to stay out of my life for now on. I told him I don’t want that and he didn’t respond
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Anonymous 1d

“I’m sorry you feel that way. I will stay out of your life in all ways from now on. I love you and don’t want you to feel this way so it’s best I’m not around you to bring you down. I’m not going to argue my case because it’s not going to change anything. Maybe we will try again in future, but this might be the best thing. I’m sorry and I hope things improve. I love you and wish you the best. “

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Anonymous 1d

I told him I’d go to therapy with him too and I don’t want him to leave me. I love him so so much but it’s just toxic right now. I miss my dad

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Anonymous 1d

he sounds like an asshole who’s trying to punish you for sticking up for yourself with the self martyring act so he doesn’t have to feel guilty about his actions. i hope he figures his shit out and even if he doesn’t i hope you have people who will be there for you to support you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

He’s not an asshole more so he’s just so mentally messed up. Issue is I have the same problems he does I’m scared of how I’ll turn out myself. He texted me more after this, he took 30 minutes to bawl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

he can have mental health problems and also be acting like a dickhead. point is you shouldn’t take it personal like you’ve done something wrong. relationships with parents and family are hard. wishing you the best

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