Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Need some advice. My hs ex bf and I are talking again but we argue a lot, but when it’s good it’s really good. He’s talking about getting tg & making it work in college but he’s not going to JMU. If it’s hard now it prob won’t get better right? Thoughts?

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Girl Talk 9w

Need some advice. My hs ex bf and I are talking again but we argue a lot, but when it’s good it’s really good. He’s talking about getting tg & making it work in college but he’s not going to JMU. If it’s hard now it prob won’t get better right? Thoughts?

Anonymous 9w

you should want it to be good ALL the time. there are other men out there, you don’t need to tie yourself down to someone who doesn’t check all the boxes

Anonymous 9w

girl stop this right now. already talking about arguing?? you will not be happy in this relationship long term no matter how good it feels now. don't tie yourself to someone who's already stressing you out like this

Anonymous

#1 9w

that's not a good relationship

Anonymous

#1 9w

How should I end it without saying it’s just because I’m going to college? I don’t want him to think I’m just cutting him off to experience other things

Anonymous

OP 9w

bring up how you don't see it working long term with yall. be honest about how yall don't seem to align on views based on ur arguing and think it's best yall go ur separate ways

Anonymous

#2 9w

fr arguing should not be something that happens often. ya it's fine from time to time but will not be healthy for anyone involved if it's a lot

Anonymous

#2 9w

thank you sm, you’re so right

Anonymous

#1 9w

i agree. thank you

Anonymous

OP 9w

no girl, thank yourself for being smart and strong enough to recognize this before getting into it