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My bf and I are so doomed 😞 neither of us wants to break up but neither of us seems to be able to give each other what we need. Yesterday was our anniversary and we argued for two hours of it.
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Anonymous 1d

I’m sorry babe

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Anonymous 1d

Go to couples counseling if you can. Healthy couples work through things, but don’t let yourself use that to ignore any red flags. Best of luck to you too, real love will work out with care and patience. Introduce new things and go new places, maybe. Might help!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I think we're both just feeling so defeated atp

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

:/ have you guys tried talking like actually calm talk about everything?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yes; neither of us actually like to fight loud or argue so we keep each other in check and calmed down and talked a lot after the initial argument, and we almost broke up but decided to keep trying for each other.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Babe if you guys have the fight to keep trying go step by step slowly and keep trying

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