
Honestly same. I think my physical preference has shifted a bit but also I just see a lot of fit guys since I work at a gym, meanwhile my boyfriend has pretty much stopped working out. When I think about it for literally more than a second though, my boyfriend has a personality and mentality that I can’t really replace easily, and I have a love and relationship with him that I would never want to replace. It is frustrating and stressful though I’ve had some cries about it.
Yeah I mean the emotional bit and personality is a big part of attraction for me and I also do think my boyfriend is attractive just to be clear he's very handsome and I like the way he looks but he's not a man that I would normally drool over and immediately at first glance want. I feel so bad saying that tho because I think I am that for him