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I think I find someone else more physically attractive than my current partner and I feel SO bad about it
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Anonymous 1w

Honestly same. I think my physical preference has shifted a bit but also I just see a lot of fit guys since I work at a gym, meanwhile my boyfriend has pretty much stopped working out. When I think about it for literally more than a second though, my boyfriend has a personality and mentality that I can’t really replace easily, and I have a love and relationship with him that I would never want to replace. It is frustrating and stressful though I’ve had some cries about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Men usually have wandering eyes to some extent so I just sort of imagine he feels the same 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yeah I mean the emotional bit and personality is a big part of attraction for me and I also do think my boyfriend is attractive just to be clear he's very handsome and I like the way he looks but he's not a man that I would normally drool over and immediately at first glance want. I feel so bad saying that tho because I think I am that for him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

And I feel even worse because every now and then I'm like I wish he was a little different idk but that's such an awful thing to even think about someone who I love

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

No that’s honestly completely normal I feel the same way. I get frustrated with certain things but I think it’s just part of loving someone for who they are.

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