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i pass as a cis girl irl and it feels like when ppl find out i’m trans a switch flips in their head and i hate it. like a queer girl friend didn’t know i was trans and not long after she found out we were bantering and she said “at least im a real woman!”
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Anonymous 5w

what the actual fuck😭😭 i can’t even imagine ever saying that. she should be more worried about not being a real bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

it hurt even more because she was queer herself (a bi girl) and tbh that’s a big reason why i go stealth (just pretending to be a cis girl) because i’m so scared even the queer people i know will see me differently and see me as a boy deep down

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

she’s clearly a hurt person who doesn’t actually know the sociology behind gender or about queer history. i’m so sorry her ignorance had to get taken out on you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

ty ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 i wish i could be open as being trans and not have it be like a cursed mark on me yk? just be a girl that happens to be trans rather than a trans girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

because it feels like when people see im trans the trans part is more important than the girl part and im seen as different from “real” girls

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

i’m so sorry, it sucks and makes no sense. you didn’t become a different person or a different girl once they find out you’re trans. i hope one day you find a community of people who you never have to hide in front of🤍 but until that day comes just keep doing whatever u need to get through it. one day you will find your people and it will be so good 🫂

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