Anonymous #2 16w

she blocked me tho so i can’t investigate at all

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Anonymous #2 16w

She said he’s 10 years older. She made her account private so I can’t investigate more either

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Anonymous #4 16w

That’s just disgusting

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Anonymous #4 16w

so insane for her to have nothing for a safety net. at least with my degree i have a back up and i continue to keep educating myself since laws change in my field often.

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Anonymous #16 16w

It’s not about the marriage itself, it’s that she’s entirely dependent on him and that’s super dangerous

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Anonymous #9 16w

Yup I can tell right away as someone who comes from a very foreign family this is 100% some kind of arrangement or common in her culture. It’s very sad honestly

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Anonymous #9 16w

WEEKS???

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Anonymous #22 16w

yupppp… 😭 she also said they went on a 2 month honeymoon as well. their honeymoon was longer than their entire relationship 💀

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Anonymous #16 16w

It has nothing to do w marrying young I myself have always wanted to marry young it’s the fact she has no degree to her name and let’s say they get divorced or smthg tragic happens she’s gonna be in a shit position I’ve seen this happen to multiple women in my life

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Anonymous #2 16w

I’m tellin yall this is 10000% arranged or smthg common in her culture im assuming Jewish bc im familiar with it

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Anonymous #19 16w

No i understand that and i agree with you. I’ve seen this situation plenty of times thru out my life. But I feel like us constantly talking about it isn’t gonna change anything. She’s clearly too far gone. I don’t get why we need to get worked up over it

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Anonymous #16 16w

On a platform with a lot of young impressionable girls and women, I don’t think we should remain silent while people encourage this lifestyle. They should have know about the risks, not just the glamorized version being pushed for likes and money. And if they still want to pursue it, great, but at least they know what could go wrong

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Anonymous #2 16w

what she isn’t saying is her family is extremely well off, her “backup plan” is mom & dad so she can comfortably make this decision while not informing other women of all the risks :/

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Anonymous #26 16w

get a new dream

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Anonymous #25 16w

I’m in process of applying to grad school for this fall, ik being a housewife ain’t realistic. But I’d love the opportunity to have a stress free life after what I’ve been through and just do whatever I please

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Anonymous #26 16w

y’all have this imaginary idea of housewivery being stress-free & idk where u get it from—there’s nothing stress free about putting your life in the palm of someone else’s hand, being a household manager, emotional laborer, and child rearer. y’all disrespect women every day by acting like being a SAHM is “spoiled” and not a full time job.

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Anonymous #27 16w

It’s dangerous and what op said isn’t wrong at all. What’s wrong with saying the fact that the hand that feeds you can starve you?

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Anonymous #16 16w

It’s not getting married at 19 months. The problem is. She has no backup plan. She is one argument away from being homeless. I have seen woman who were in similar situation who ended up losing everything warn her.

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Anonymous #32 16w

Some loser shit fr

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Anonymous #9 16w

Tradwife energy

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Anonymous #35 16w

I can assure you you can find the love of your life young without jeopardizing yourself by not getting an education or looking after yourself financially

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Anonymous #35 16w

it’s not a race? you don’t get a prize for getting married sooner? and we also don’t know if this will be for the rest of her life as they have been together approx. one year—it is an extremely new marriage. you know what relationship i’m jealous of? my parents. both of them contribute. both of them respect one another. both of them love their life together. and they met in their late 30s.

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Anonymous #35 16w

if your takeaway from all of this is that we’re jealous that she’s married i fear you’re just really fucking stupid. like genuinely so dumb you’d forget to breathe if your body didn’t do it for you

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Anonymous #35 16w

I am not at all jealous of a situation where your entire livelihood is dependent on somebody else. That husband could decide he doesn’t like you anymore at any point. It is always preferable to have SOMETHING to your name if the shit hits the fan

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Anonymous #32 16w

I am aware of that as I have found the person I consider to be my soulmate. But also, people don’t go into this kind of life style without the income to support it. It’s very doable to live off a single income in 2026 quite comfortably provided that income is good enough. And besides, someone can always go back to school to get a degree when they are older if they wish. Plenty of people do that.

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Anonymous #35 16w

People do go into that lifestyle without the income to support it all the time—living off credit cards, stuck with car payments, numerous other kinds of debts, and help from parents. And going back to school not only costs money, but time, time you don’t have when you’re thrown out on a random Wednesday in February & need a job to pay for the lifestyle you once led.

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Anonymous #35 16w

If YOU are not making money you are actively losing years of social security and other retirement benefits, you are leaving a years long gap on your resume, you are forgetting skills leading to a necessity for continued education, etc. You sacrifice immense economic power by not maintaining employment. No matter how you try to romanticize it.

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Anonymous #35 16w

And don’t even get me STARTED on insurance, what happens when you aren’t insured to drive “your” car? These are the things people like you seem to neglect

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