Anonymous #1 14h

i was hu w my fwb. paused for a min then he went in to makeout and i said "no wait" bc i just needed a sec. he holds me down and says what do you mean no? you cant tell me no. i was uncomfy but didnt actually rlly mean no? its just the fact he ignored the word no. i wanted to get w him so we continued on but i keep overthinking it

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Anonymous OP 14h

well considering you wanted to continue after he said that i wouldn’t say it was assault. although him saying that is a huge red flag and if you didn’t want to continue, it seems like he would have tried to force himself onto you anyways. i would avoid him tbh

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Anonymous OP 14h

imo i wouldn't consider this 100% assult but its assult adjacent to me because he crossed a boundary ✋🫪 even if u wanted to continue, needing to catch ur breath for a minute is completely valid and if that interaction made u uncomfortable u should either bring it up with him or cut him off 🫪👎 he sounds like the type that would force himself on u regardless like #1 said

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yeah i think a lot of people think a label is all it takes and forget u actually have to put work into yourself and be mindful of how societal expectations might force u to act in a way thats disrespectful ✋🫪 like how some ppl think that because they're oppressed for being gay then whatever they say cant come off as homophobic or racist 🤷‍♀️ its really fucked but there's only so much we can do 🫪🙏 but holding eachother accountable is always the answer lowshit

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