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I’m so tired of gender, transphobia, and people saying “but the kids”—-this was me as a kid
167 upvotes, 19 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "I’m so tired of gender, transphobia, and people saying “but the kids”—-this was me as a kid"
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Anonymous 21h

And this was in 2009, I had never heard of a trans person let alone non-binary people.

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Anonymous 21h

Yeah ive been masc since i was little and was taken for a boy almost as often as i was taken for a girl. I had to deal with genital inspections for sports and that was fucking horrific. It makes me sick that people would rather traumatize and alienate all gnc girls over have even one trans girl feel included

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Anonymous 19h

“Kids don’t know anything about life” but this was my diary entry at 12 years old

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Anonymous 21h

i was basically forced into a tomboy/masc way of living as a child bc i was a tall black girl with short hair and big ass feet (size 9 in womens at 9 years old) and like at the time i didnt mind bc i didnt think abt gender like that but now its so hard to try to be feminine for me and i think i identify as gnc but i just wish ppl didnt push gender so much on children esp ones who dont fit the binary like why is it so hard to accept children for who they are

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Anonymous 19h

yeah nah transphobes don't actually believe it, or anything, their entire belief is "trans people bad" and anything else is whatever conveniently allows them to keep justifying it this week. They're too stupid to understand anything.

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Anonymous 19h

THIS!!! I’ve known I wasn’t bound to one sexuality the moment I knew what attraction was, I actually definitely found girls & women attractive before I batted an eye at boys, I hated boys they were gross to me. Again- I was probably under 10, had no idea what I was feeling was attraction since I thought it could only be boy-girl. I just call myself queer and sometimes pansexual because 🤷‍♀️ I like who I like and “gender” doesn’t matter to me , & never has, clearly.

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Anonymous 18h

I’ve known I was trans since my very earliest memories as a kid. I may not have had the vocabulary to express it, but I knew very deeply. Yet I never felt safe enough to come out and be me until my early 20s. Puberty was a living hell for me. I remember the first week of it— I was in such distress that I didn’t eat or sleep for an entire week. I hurt myself for years after then. And then I stopped giving a fuck and let me be myself.

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Anonymous 13h

Ugh stop making cultural stereotypes about men and women the same as biological sex. Have you never seen cultural expectations before? Screw cultural stereotypes

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Anonymous 14h

Okay so just genuine question, wouldn’t this warrant wanting to change stereotypes for women and girls? You’re still a girl, but you can dress and act however you want. Why do you want everyone to call you a guy? I’m being genuine.

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Anonymous 19h

bc u knew abt transphobia as a kid 😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

obviously this is about sexuality moreso than gender identity, but idk I feel like it still stands with this. Fuck the binary system

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

I love you “nah. that won’t work” YOURE FUNNY AS FUCK FOR THATTTTT LMFAOO

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

HAHA to be fair this was subtle foreshadowing to my struggle with gender identity because of religious OCD 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Oh Jesus Christ babes you were WAYYY too wise for 12, you’re here now and you’re doing amazing for being here <33 12 year old you had a hard time but had a sense of humor to a point I can tell, you’ve def lived and grown so much , be so so proud of you<33 im so happy for you to be here today

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

I really appreciate it 🥹❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

Girl just cuz it wasnt on your radar doesnt mean others werent affected by it..

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

there is no kid who’s “radar” transphobia is on unless u have some wildly liberal parents who put shit in ur head 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

No i was just a tomboy and got hatecrimed bc bigoted adults thought i was a trans boy or girl.. like read my other comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

as a kid i didnt know what transphobia specifically was but i did know it was wrong to discriminate against ppl who weren’t apart of the binary gender and btw my parents are religious nigerian immigrants so they definitely werent “brainwashing” me with liberal stuff. children know things, dont think of them as dumb.

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